Do these terms make your eyes spin: self-confidence, self-esteem, self-worth?
If so you are not alone and this is confusing. If this is the case for you… here is excellent news, your awareness is about to expand and your life is about to change.
Do you want to know more…?
If you read: “self care is self confidence” does this statement make sense or sound confusing?
If you think about it for a moment, what things do you do each day to make yourself feel cared about… that you yourself do… that feels caring.It is done by you, for you, in order to make you feel good. Hint: Key 1
Can you name them or write them on a paper so that you can actually see in black and white. Grab a pen and write a few down, go ahead, and think about it, do you or don’t you do this each day, consciously.
What are the daily acts you do to take care of yourself. And do you feel taken care of or like it is just done.
1. brush teeth… is this maintenance or is this self-care?
2. getting yourself dressed… is this self-care? Do you think positive thoughts about you? Do you dress with the primary goal of making yourself feel great, look great, show your style, and appear properly presented.
Are the things you do to enrich your life, to improve your physical & mental well-being. Are you getting stronger in your body. Are you reading tons of books to develop your mind. Self Care is developing your intuition and learning to hear, listen to, and work with your inner guides to pursue a greater Life Purpose beyond day-to-day living.
Self Care Test: Do you brush your hair so that it is brushed. Or does it also make you smile.
Self care is making sure you have good habits and that you check in on those habits making sure they work for you. Are you prepared for the day with a great start in the morning.,Are you prepared to keep you focused during the day immersed in learning and laughing and creating.
Self care is making someone of yourself that you admire and the process of becoming this person. Making someone of yourself requires good, productive Habits. Habits are key Hint: Key #2
Self Confidence Review
Here is your question again, how to develop self confidence. Let’s break it down.
Confidence is a belief in the ability to do something. The basic question reworded, how can you believe that you can do things? The top coaches of the world talk about repetition, speed, and ability. These all lead to confidence in one’s ability to do something plus effectiveness.
Effectiveness + Ability = Self Confidence
Effectiveness + Ability + Speed = Higher Self Confidence
Self Confidence is not Ego
It is not possible for Confidence to come from Ego. Because the Ego is like a fan at the game it is just a spectator. Ego fans are noisy and can talk a lot. This can be highly negative and repetitive and doubts can impact the players. What do you think happens to the Player’s confidence with a negative fan yelling constantly. Are you able to think of some examples of this in your own life.
This impact on the Player depends on the Self Belief - the Self Confidence the Player feels. There are ways of protecting against negative Spectators (and negative talk by the Ego). We will come to this soon…
Creating Self Confidence happens Naturally
There are many things a person learns to do, and does. This builds confidence automatically, like walking. There are ways to help protect the positive space from negative outside influences.
Negative people teach negative self talk, by repeating an idea to your Ego over and over again. Eventually people take on this message and questions the self in the same way.
This is like the Player listening to the Spectators and can be protected against. There are tools that can work to prevent this influence like Crystals & Gemstones that work to block these energies.
Black Obsidian is an excellent Crystal to keep negative energies away while you re-set your own senses.
To allow Self Confidence to happen naturally you need to open and protect a positive space for you to think and feel for yourself. To realize you are able to do the things that you do everyday, like walking and it doesn’t matter what anyone else has to say about these facts because for you, it is fact.
Creating Self Esteem Happens Naturally
Self Esteem is formed like this and felt like this. In what way do you regard your abilities. Are you good at things? In general, what do you think about how good you are at your life. This is your level of Self Esteem, which is raised naturally by the 2 Keys. Do people tell you that you are good or not good? In this moment does it matter to you what other people (spectators) say? Does it matter what your Ego says? Or does it matter most what you feel.
Unfortunately, TV, other people, friends, family are totally filled with negative ideas. The good news is that many negative influences can be turned off. Negative people can be less easy to shed and the flow negative thoughts so freely with mean comments, they can be rude, and can act disrespectfully.
Learning to create a distance to protect against negative energies is important. Protective Crystals & Gemstones have been used for this purpose for thousands of years. They protect a space for you to listen to your inner guides and find your truth and to hear what these guides sound like to you.
Self Respect & Self Confidence
What you tolerate all comes down to Self Respect, Self Confidence, and Self Esteem. How you feel about you, what sort of environment you want for yourself to live, learn, and develop yourself, and how you feel about your life. It becomes this: I am the person to decide and act for myself.
Self Respect: a feeling of how you treat yourself and how you want to be treated by others.
Self Confidence: is all about positive experiences and figuring things out.
It is a feeling based on experiences that you have done this thing many times, so many times that you can try similar things and completely new things knowing that it can work, work okay, or not work at all and that it is just the learning & progress that leads to success.
Self Esteem: a feeling about what level of ability you believe that you have.
Naturally Self Esteem grows as you realize how much effort you have put into developing your life, your physical body, your mind, keeping focused, having a positive attitude, and enriching the lives of others, this level of regard you have about you will be UP and continue rising.
The Anti-Self Confidence
What is the opposite of Self Confident?
These things lower self esteem, self confidence, and self respect: Bad habits, not developing the self, and a negative attitude. These are forms of self anger. Why is that? You can answer this question now because you have learned Confidence and how to create it for yourself.The opposite of self confident is self critical
The Multiplying Effect of a Positive Attitude
The more experiences you have, you think about them with a positive attitude, and just watch as your self confidence grows and grows.
There are inner guides that everyone has, outside influences, like spectators, try to quiet down these guides, yet your inner guides are still here just as the Sun exists behind the clouds.
Your inner guides always are and always will exist for you, all you have to do is ask them and they will work to show you what you seek and to find the inner wisdom that gives you answers. Self Confidence is how you build everything. Once you have found the answers it is up to you to make the necessary decisions about what you want to do and to then act on it and DO IT until it is DONE.
Crystals & Gemstones support and encourage Self Confidence, Self Esteem, and getting things done. These ancient stones reconnects you with your inner guides and amplifies their messages for you as you learn to communicate questions and wishes to them.
3 Crystals & Gemstones to encourage Self Confidence and Self Esteem
Tiger Eye Stone, Black Obsidian, and Blue Lapis Lazuli.
Tiger Eye Stones benefits engaging action, it automatically supports self confidence and getting things done.
Blue Lapis Lazuli Stones increase the ability to focus, to think on your feet, and to use your voice if it has been affected by negativity: negative people, negative situations, and negative inner self talk.
Black Obsidian comes from the fires of the Volcano and looks like black glass. It is a protection stone against all negativity that works like a shield over the positive energy and a positive attitude.
Your attitude is owned by you
Your attitude is yours, your property. It is of you and no one else can claim it or take it from you. It is up to you to decide to be positive and how you go about it. How is your Style, your Attitude.
The Secret of Life is to develop yourself and then give it away to make other people feel great.
The two Keys to developing Self Confidence and Self Esteem are the choice to follow two specific habits following a positive attitude and getting to really know and understand yourself with Self Care.
Welcome to your new Awareness! And Share this new Knowledge!